Growing means a process of separation and the kids moving to independence. Nature has some natural signals that this separating needs to happen. For example the teens can develop a odor parents may rather have a showered off, move out or both.
This is why college was invented. (OK there is also the higher learning thing too.)
All parents of college kids need to talk with their kids about alcohol. Those of us with T1D kids need to talk about how alcohol and diabetes mix. Guess what T1D complicates it.
Our culture is awash in alcohol. It is insane to pretend otherwise. Our kids need to learn to navigate the world they live in and part of that world is lubricated by alcohol.
Just as your diabetes may vary your kid's attitude towards alcohol may. YDMV - Your Drinking May Vary. Sadly I fear this may be an area where parental projections of their kid's behavior may miss the reality of college. I think it is a lot better to talk about alcohol than assume it is not an issue and have it become one.
To help start conversations, we created DrinkingWithDiabetes.com with a grant from the Diabetes Hands Foundation. It is a resource for students and parents to get ready to talk. It is new and the site needs need feed back to become stronger. Your comments are most welcome.
Alcohol is a reality. Talk about it. Here. With your kids.